💔 Saying goodbye is hard – and that’s okay
It’s completely normal for young children to feel anxious when separating from their parents, especially when starting preschool for the first time. Tears, clinginess, and resistance at drop-off are signs that your child is adjusting to a big change — not that something is wrong.
As a preschool in Equestria, Pretoria East, we at Super Kidz Academy see this every year. The good news? With patience, consistency, and a few practical strategies, most children adjust quickly and confidently to their new routine.
👶 What is separation anxiety?
Separation anxiety is a normal developmental stage where young children feel upset when away from their parents or caregivers. It usually peaks between 18 months and 3 years but can resurface at any age during transitions like starting school.
Common signs include:
– Crying at drop-off
– Refusing to go to school
– Clinginess or physical tension
– Trouble sleeping or eating
✅ Tips to help your child cope with separation anxiety
1. Practice short separations before school starts
Ease your child into separation by spending short periods apart – with a trusted friend or family member -before the first day of preschool.
2. Create a calm, predictable morning routine
A smooth start at home can make a big difference. Try:
– Packing bags the night before
– Waking up early to avoid rushing
– Having a quiet moment for hugs or a favorite song before leaving
3. Keep goodbyes short and positive
A quick, confident goodbye helps your child feel secure. Reassure them with something like:
“I’ll be back after snack time – I can’t wait to hear about your day!”
Avoid sneaking away, as this can increase anxiety.
4. Be consistent with drop-offs
Stick to a consistent drop-off routine, even if it’s difficult at first. Children adapt best when they know what to expect.
5. Talk about school positively
Speak with excitement about school, teachers, and new friends. Avoid showing hesitation – children often mirror your emotions.
💡 Support from your preschool matters
A caring, experienced team can make all the difference. At Super Kidz Academy, we support both children and parents through the transition process. Our warm, nurturing environment and structured daily routine help children feel safe, secure, and excited to come back each day.
We work closely with parents to share feedback and celebrate small wins – because every successful goodbye is a big step forward.
💬 Final thought for parents
Separation anxiety is temporary, but the bond you build with your child during this stage is lasting. With support, patience, and loving guidance, your child will soon feel confident and happy to start their day at preschool.
📍 Looking for a preschool that supports emotional growth?
If you’re looking for a preschool in Pretoria East that understands emotional development and supports smooth transitions, Super Kidz Academy is here for you.